We love always to our fullest capacity. That might not be very great, but it can be learned. At first, we may love hesitantly and fearfully, for to open up to love takes courage. As we mature and develop our ability to have an open heart, we can slowly learn to love others for themselves alone.
The same can be said for the receiving and giving of mercy. It can be difficult to receive mercy from others, even if, like love, we experience the desire for mercy as a deep longing. Mercy, when we do actually embrace and accept it, is a healing event.
