A concerned Catholic: I am a gay man in my thirties. I try to live by the Church’s teaching, but find “enforced celibacy” very difficult. Vocation to priesthood or marriage, which the Church talks about constantly, are free choices, but my situation seems to be forced upon me. I have a strong desire for emotional intimacy, not necessarily a sexual relationship. I fear growing old by myself. Can I date for emotional companionship? Does the Church really have a place for me?
Thank you for being so honest about your position and your desires. Well done for seeking to live in accordance with the Gospel. That alone will bring you genuine and lasting happiness.
