What about those in “second unions”? What about mercy for those who want, need or deserve a second chance? Before attempting any answer, we need to recognise that marital happiness is by no means the norm for humanity. This may sound like a surprising assertion from a Catholic. Part of the legacy of St John Paul II is that the Church, perhaps to correct an earlier emphasis that tended the other way, has spoken of marriage as a blissful and ecstatic union. But is it? Human love is of its very nature imperfect and stained by sin. No one knew this better than Cranmer, who wrote:
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The Church must not promote the idea that marriage is a fairy tale
In the third of a four-part look ahead to October's synod, Fr Alexander Lucie-Smith says upholding marriage relies on teaching people about its realities
Fr Alexander Lucie-Smith

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